And I am back!!! Miss me? Dear Friday So and So…

Dear So and So...

Sorry for falling off the grid there.  Jimmy and I are sick, AGAIN, for the 2nd time in a month.  Yay germs.  😦

Without further ado… here is Friday’s Dear So and So!!  Have a great weekend!!


Dear Baby or Babies to be,

Please let me see you on the ultrasound next week.  It was disheartening to not be able to see you yesterday on the ultrasound.  I am trying to stay positive and hopeful since your numbers are still climbing and suggesting you are doing really well.  Just give me a sign.  K?

Anxiously awaiting good news,



Dear Sinus Infection number two,

Seriously?  Again?  Seriously???  It’s been like what… two weeks since you last attacked me!?!?!  Oh.My.Gawwwd.

You suck,



Dear Monkey,

I am so sorry that I can’t make you feel better.  I am so sorry that you take after your Mama and want complete undivided attention when you are sick.  I understand that you feel the need to be held, cuddled, and smothered in hugs and kisses 24/7 when you are sick.  I don’t even mind that you wipe your very alarmingly green boogers on my shirt.  This is how bad I feel that you are sick and that I can’t fix it.

Not the Super Mommy Fixer of All Things that I thought I was,



Dear Laundry,

Please do yourself.  Cause I am on sabbatical.

Thanks much,



Dear Messy House,

Please clean yourself.  Seriously.  Ugh.



Dear To Do List,

Why must you mock me?




Dear Homeless Man from the Taco Bell yesterday,

When you walked up to my car, I tried to act nonchalant and didn’t rush to roll up my window even though my snobby side told me to.  And when you asked me if I would be so kind as to spare a few bucks or get you some lunch, I agreed because you looked like you needed a yummy Taco Bell lunch, so I ordered you up 3 fat burritos.  However, I must say I felt a bit uncomfortable when you asked to get into my truck, and that is of course why I declined your invite.  But you agreed to meet me around the side by the pickup window to retrieve your lunch, so I let it go.  I really beginning to get the heebie jeebies though when I looked around to give you your lunch and you were nowhere to be found.  Now my panicky side is left to wonder A) Where the hell did you go?  B) What was your real intent on coming to my window and asking me to get in to my truck? And C) What do I do with these three burritos??

Thank you for making my good deed feel like something that could have resulted in me being on the 10 o’clock news.  You are a creepy, creepy man that will haunt my dreams now.  I just pray you were too drunk or strung out to remember that I agreed to buy you lunch.

Please don’t ever approach my truck again and freak me the hell out,



Dear Readers,
Thank you for putting up with me for another week. I do hope that you chose to participate in Dear So and So. Just click here to go to Kat’s Blog and get the button for your page. Or add your letter in the comments. Would love to read!
Have a fantastic weekend!!!
Thanks for stopping by, again 😀


22 Responses to “And I am back!!! Miss me? Dear Friday So and So…”

  1. September 11, 2009 at 7:55 am

    Dude, that homeless guy sounds like he needs a shanking. Just let me know…


  2. September 11, 2009 at 9:22 am

    Dahlink, there is no reason I should still be awake. But I am. Feel better!! Now!! And did you notice your oh-so-Freudian typo about creepy man? I do believe you wrote “good dead” lol. You’re already shankin’ him in your mind 😛 Sorry that happened to you but you’ve got lots of other mama bears to protect you! Lemme at ’em! *hugs from a safe distance from green snot* xoxo

  3. 5 Denise!
    September 11, 2009 at 10:15 am

    lol…Dear Laundry: I’m on a sabbatical…hilarious!

  4. September 11, 2009 at 10:17 am

    Promise you will do no more helping out creepy people at Taco Bells. Nuff said.

  5. September 11, 2009 at 1:21 pm

    I hope you see your little one(s) next week too.

    remember, he/she is just a teeny little grain of sand right now, that is growing into a beach…or he/she is just hiding behind an organ!

  6. September 11, 2009 at 1:36 pm

    So, do you have reason to believe it is babie(s)?

    • 12 Cass
      September 11, 2009 at 2:19 pm

      The nurse thinks because of the way my numbers are climbing that it is more than one. And since we used injections to get pregnant, they kept a close eye on my levels. My estradiol numbers were very high too, which increases the chances even higher of multiples. I had three really good follicles when we did the IUI so I am hoping for 2. That’s what my gut says. But who knows. *shrug*

  7. September 11, 2009 at 2:30 pm

    yeah, i wrote that same letter to my laundry a few weeks ago. not so much.

    great letters, feel better!

  8. September 12, 2009 at 6:03 pm

    Oh no! A sinus infection and you can’t use a little nasal spray to help you sleep! That happened to me right after I had my first baby (like hours after I had him) and because I was *trying* to breastfeed, I couldn’t take anything. I ended up not sleeping for 48 hours. After childbirth. And I looked like an 80 year old woman when I left the hospital. In a wheelchair. Because I had no idea that the amount of pain I was experiencing “down there” wasn’t normal and I should have asked for painkillers. And by the time I figured that out I only needed the painkillers for a day or so. And breastfeeding never worked out anyway since my milk doesn’t come in until day ten and by then my baby was addicted to formula. Ah – it was such a magical time….

    Hope you feel better soon! And just give homeless people money from now on. The honor system could save both your life or at least your sanity.

    • 16 Cass
      September 13, 2009 at 9:23 pm

      Yes I am trying not to think about all that. Or my last pregnancy! lol Both were harder than hell. Well worth it but OI! at the time I thought I was going to go mad. And then I had to get prepared for the fun that was colic! 🙂 YAY ME! My breast milk didn’t come in either. It was rough.

      I usually do give them money but I didn’t have any cash on me this day. And he actually did ask me for money or lunch… I offered lunch cause all I had was my debit card on me.

  9. September 12, 2009 at 6:19 pm

    (( Dear To Do List, Why must you mock me? ))

    LOL! My to-do list mocks me every day. 🙂

  10. September 13, 2009 at 12:25 am

    At least you had the good sense NOT to let the man into the truck.

  11. September 13, 2009 at 8:09 am

    Hope you and your little one feel better soon. Oh, and btw, that homeless guy, very creepy!! I would have nightmares too.

    My to-do list mocks me too, when I can find it that is. Usually it’s lost amid the rubble of what I call my home.

    I can’t think of anything to post for Dear So and So. 😦

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Hi, my name is Cass. I am married to an amazing man who loves me unconditionally. I’m a stay at home mom to a rockin’ 2 year old boy who I call Monkey. I have an 12 year old step-daughter who lives in another state. We miss her daily. We also have two fur babies, Daisy and Jazz, who keep us on our toes. They are awesome!

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